Monday, January 27, 2014

GUEST POST: Light of Love and Sisters: a Tale of Two Films

A couple months ago Imagine Sisters released the film Light of Love, an hour-long documentary highlighting the beauty of Religious Life. It is beautiful. If you haven’t seen it yet, you need to stop what you’re doing and go watch it. As in, unless you are either A) in Mass or B) helping another person, you have no better way to spend the next hour. So much goodness.

Just a couple weeks ago, though, I stumbled upon another documentary, this one produced by the Leadership Conference of Women Religious (LCWR). With the simple title Sisters, this film is interestingly similar to Light of Love. Both well produced, beautifully reflective, hour-long documentaries focus on the lives of five individual Sisters from different Religious orders. The films even came out about the same time.

As a young Catholic who has discerned Religious Life for many years, I am well aware of the decades-long discussion about the two major groups of women Religious in the United States. In addition to the LCWR, there is the Council of Major Superiors of Women Religious (CMSWR), which all the Religious Orders from Light of Love are a part of. Throughout the years, I have heard many people argue endlessly about the “orthodoxy” of the “beautifully habited CMSWR Sisters” versus the “liberalism” of the “habit-less Sisters of the LCWR.”

So interested, though a bit wary, I sat down to through the entirety of Sisters, making mental notes along the way.  As with Light of Love, this film presents the work and lives of joyful Sisters, and much of it is very beautiful. But as I expected, there were some major differences.

Because these films are so similar, I immediately wondered if anyone else has compared the two. A quick search only brought up one article on the website A Nun’s Life. The article’s author, Sister Julie, writes that these two films bring up the diversity—“good diversity!”—in the lives of Sisters today.

To an extent, I agree with those who say, “Oh hey! Both groups of Sisters are serving Jesus and other people! Why compare them?” In her article, Sister Julie even explains, “I cringe at any type of labeling of nuns as liberal or not, orthodox or not, faithful or not, habited or not, authentic or not. These are divisive categories that denigrate the Body of Christ.” I get it. We should never try to create categories of “us Catholics” and “them Catholics.” However, I think there are actually deeper issues with the Religious Life presented in Sisters than we realize at first.

First of all, the visibility of the Sisterhood was the initial thing that stuck out to me. One of the Sisters in Sisters talks about how she works in the hospital, but she does not wear a habit or even introduce herself as “Sister Karen,” because, “It’s not what people are expecting.” I find this ironic, because she also talks about going to Catholic school as a child, and how people around town would recognize her “Catholic-ness” because of her school uniform. She remembers, “The Sisters always told us, ‘Behave, because you’ve got the uniform on.’” Was this such a bad thing? Why hasn’t her proclamation of her “Catholic-ness” carried over into her Religious Life?

Compare her story, though, to one of the Sisters from Light of Love, who, coincidentally, also works in the hospital. She does wear a habit and everyone everywhere immediately recognizes her as a Religious Sister—someone different, someone who is living for Someone else, and not for this world. In her experience of wearing the habit, she explains that when she goes to the waiting room to call someone back, their face visibly changes—there is a comfort. A trust. Seeing her habit, many people will also come up to her and ask her to pray for them. Because her Religious consecration is so visible, she gets that opportunity to witness, to be available, and to pray for others who come up to ask her for prayers.

In Pope John Paul II’s Vita Consecrata, he declares that “The first duty of the consecrated life is to make visible [emphasis his] the marvels wrought by God in the frail humanity of those who are called. They bear witness to these marvels not so much in words as by the eloquent language of a transfigured life, capable of amazing the world.” It really should be the goal of Religious to make God’s marvels visible, in whatever way they can.

Another missing element from Sisters is prayer. While Light of Love has many beautiful clips of Sisters praying in many different ways, there are none of these images found in Sisters. Sure, they talk about it. But there is quite a bit of footage from their apostolates, so why was the most important part of a Religious Sister’s life not shown?

At one point, one of the Sisters in Sisters says, “In one sense, I feel like I lead two lives.” She is a pediatric emergency physician and a Sister of Mercy. Compare this, though, to a quote from Light of Love: “...you really can’t separate prayer from your work because when you are praying unceasingly in your heart, our Lord is always with you.”

I won’t deny that the Sisters whose work is presented in Sisters are doing beautiful things. One of the Sisters tells an awesome story of being able to help a young girl with clubbed feet be able to walk. Another builds houses in New Orleans with young adults, while still another is able to serve people through counseling them. However, the documentary Sisters really only focuses on the humanitarian work that these Sisters are doing, and forgets about the most important role of Religious in the world today—leading other people to Christ and to Heaven. We are not created for this world.

Pope John Paul II writes about the most important thing in life: “[Religious’] witness helps the whole Church to remember that the most important thing is to serve God freely, through Christ's grace which is communicated to believers through the gift of the Spirit. Thus they proclaim to the world the peace which comes from the Father, the dedication witnessed to by the Son, and the joy which is the fruit of the Holy Spirit.” In everything they do, Religious Sisters need to remind people that the most important thing is to serve God.

One of the Sisters in Light of Love explains,
“...things   will   eventually   fade,   things   break,   they   don’t   fulfill,   for   a  moment they   fulfill   and   then  it’s  emptiness  again...  All  of  this  passes  away  and  I  think for  me  the  reason  why  is  because  I  am  living  for  eternity  and  I  can  start  that now.”


And unfortunately, it is this perspective that I think Sisters is missing. 

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